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Do you have a little crush on one of your coworkers? Flirting in the workplace can be fun, but it can also be risky. The last thing you want is to get in trouble with your boss or HR. Fortunately, you can subtly flirt with him using your body language, showing off your personality, and complimenting him. Just make sure that you're following all of your workplace's rules and respecting his boundaries so you don't tarnish your professional reputation.
Tip: Practice smiling in the mirror so it'll be easier to give a flirty smile when you see your crush.
Tip: If a conversation starts, try to keep it going. To do this, ask open ended questions like, “What did you do next?” or “How are you dealing with that?” It's possible that he'll see this as an opportunity to flirt with you, as well.
Tip: Try phrasing compliments about their looks as a joke. Say something like, “Wow, even when it's raining your hair still looks perfect.” This allows you to see how he reacts while still being able to act like it wasn't meant as a compliment.[11]
Tip: Before you send something, ask yourself if you'd be okay with another coworker or HR reading what you wrote. Don't risk your job!
Tip: If you're only flirting for fun, you might not worry about the relationship policies. However, you still want to be careful that you don't step over the line.
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