How to Talk With Teens

Thứ bảy - 27/04/2024 01:08
Teens are not always the easiest people in the world to understand or talk to. They can be complex and moody, with their minds fumbling between childhood and adulthood. Not to mention raging hormones! But this doesn't mean its impossible...
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Teens are not always the easiest people in the world to understand or talk to. They can be complex and moody, with their minds fumbling between childhood and adulthood. Not to mention raging hormones! But this doesn’t mean its impossible to talk with teens.

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Part 1 of 3:

Creating a Time to Talk

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Keeping the Communication Open

  1. Step 4 Offer your opinion, but avoid lecturing or nagging your teen.
    Chances are you will hear your teen say something you disagree with. But its important to avoid statements like, “That’s a stupid decision,” or “You’re wrong about that boy.” Instead, try to offer an opinion by saying, “I understand where you’re coming from but this is how I see it…”. Or “I’m here to listen, but let me know if you want any advice from me.”
    • Start by noting your teen’s feelings. “You seem upset about what happened last night.” Using a statement rather than a question will make the phrase sound more like a suggestion, rather than an accusation.
    • Give them all your attention and listen to what they have to say. Put your phone away, turn off the TV, or shut the door. Make your teen feel like they have the floor.
    • Offer help or advice once they have finished speaking. Ask them: “Is there something I can do to help?” or “Would you like some advice?”
    • Often, teens just need to talk about issues or problems to someone they trust and respect. They may not be seeking the answer to a problem or an easy solution. So, be willing to listen to them, rather than lecture them.
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Maintaining Communication

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